Thankful Thursday: May 2nd

I know I’m about two months behind on these. Life really has gotten in the way, and I do plan on catching them up, even if I have to write two or three a week.

Since today is our second birthday here at Notes From the Backseat, I thought I’d go back to just how this blog got started. I don’t think I’ve ever really gone over that other than to say it’s all my husband’s fault lol

Let me take you back in time about two and half years or so. I’m sitting in the passenger seat of our Honda CR-V as my husband drives along the interstate. In the backseat, Sissy sits behind daddy, Little Brother behind me and the cat, in her carrier, wedged between the car seats. Strewn about the floor board in both the back and front are duffel bags, diaper bags, crafting bags, supplies for the kids (such as snacks and DVDs). In the very back, a stadium stroller, a dog in a crate, two large suitcases and a bunch of pillows and blankets. On top of the vehicle was a large black bag, securely strapped down full of more travel supplies and all the Christmas presents, already wrapped and hiding from the kids so as not to ruin Santa just yet.

You see, this was Christmas 2010 and we were in the middle of a PCS from beautiful, sunny Southern California to bitter, cold, dreary Central Virginia. From forecasts like “78 and sunny” to “23 with a wind chill of 10”, we drove through snow, ice, rain, sunshine, warm and cold. Ten states in Five days. Not a trip I’d want to make in such a short time ever again.

During our trip, things would come up between the kids, or between us that just made us laugh. I used these to update my status on Facebook with the title “Notes from the Backseat #__” and had a great time with it. After a while, my husband decided that “Notes from the Backseat” would be a good blog title, though it would be a few more months before I actually started the blog, shortly before our last PCS to Middle Tennessee (which is actually on the Kentucky boarder, not sure how that works).

So in honor of our second birthday, and in being thankful for all this blog has done for my sanity over the past two years, I present:

THE BEGINNING

#1: “i can’t wait to tell people to look at my tooth hole”
#2: “ok mommy, go back to your seat please! Go!”
(This was while I was leaning over in my seat making sure her movie was playing in the right language lol)
#3: “can I get out of the car?”
“like now? Can’t you wait til we get to Albuquerque?”
“well, okay mommy”
#4: “mommy, you can close the wind”
(She meant the sunroof)
#5: “look mommy! Cows! Moo Moo Moo!” -then she proceeds to giggle for 3 minutes.
#6: “i see snow! The holidays are here!
#7: “no no no!”
“what?”
“you cannot drive in the snow!”
#8: “oops! It’s not working!”
#9: “look at all the snow! It’s turning white!”
#10: “a birthday! Is it my birthday? I love parties!”
#11: “op! You’re out! Op! You’re out! Op! Everyone’s out!”
(we think she’s playing tag by herself)
#12: “mommy, my tooth is growing up”
(I’m just glad its not growing upside down)
#12 (ish): “ok, kiddo, let’s look for some boots for you”
“And Dora too!”
“ok let’s look for some shoes instead.”
#14: “you rescued the marble! you’re my hero mommy!”
#15: “Did you steal my pizza?!”
“MMMmmmMMM” (courtesy of Little Brother, he ate it all)
#16: “mommy, I think I know why its upset.”
“why is it upset?”
“cuz its dark outside. Can I have a hug?”
(she misses her daddy already)
#17: “mommy, when the movie’s over, I can have poptarts”
(no she cant, but it was a nice try, wasn’t it?)
#18: “thank you so much, SuperHero Mommy!”
(after putting the post-it over the sensor on an automatic flusher)
#19: “mommy, the tv is big so now we can play ping pong!”
(daddy said when the tv got here she could play Kinect sports ping pong lol. It’s here and she wants to play)
#20: Daddy: “honey, do u want subway or should we try Bo Jangles?”
Sissy: “jingle bells jingle bells jingle all the way. Oh what fun it is to ride in adkfirnuch eeeeeeh!”
Daddy: “i said Bo Jangles not Jingles Bells”
(she’s not quite sure what the words are LOL)

So there it is. The 20 status messages that got this blog started. My kids have always been a source of joy to me. Sure there are days that are long. There are days that are difficult. But all too often, the days are just days. Reflections of who we will be tomorrow and who we were yesterday. Today, while walking home from school, Sissy remembered about a trip she and daddy took to the beach during block leave last summer. Just the two of them, for an afternoon, went to the beach and made sand castles “and I got to knock them down!”

Today, I’m thankful for this blog.
For the people my words have touched.
For the enlightenment it has brought to others.
For the piece of mind it has brought to me.

Advertisements

Autism and Airplanes

With summer approaching, many of us may be contemplating traveling with our children. Did you know you can call ahead and request bulk head seating on some flights when traveling with your child with autism? (I imagine this would work with most disorders and disabilities.) I do this every time we fly because my daughter kicks when she’s nervous. She swings her feet wildly from the edge of her chair. I simply called ahead, explained the situation and on every flight so far we have been preassigned the bulk head for the comfort of all the passengers on the plane. You lose the under-seat storage, but get more leg room and your child has the ability to play in the extra floor space during the flight.

Also, for children with auditory sensitivity, I recommend noise canceling headphones. They don’t have to be attached to anything to cancel the noise of the airplanes and busy airports. If your child is a wanderer or runner, I would suggest investing in a “baby leash” that comes with a wrist attachment. We didn’t use the “leash” (though my daughter loves wearing it because it fits tight to her body), but using the wrist attachment we were able to loop it onto the stroller in the airport. That allowed her to have some independent walking but she was never more than three feet from our stroller in the airports and parking lots.

For long car trips,  suggest plenty of activities that can be done in the car. Reading books and drawing, for those who don’t get car sick, is a great way to pass the time. Crayola actually has “lap desks” that store the crayons and paper right inside. For those, like mine, who do get car sick, I suggest a portable DVD player. Ours uses straps to attach the screens to the back of the seats. Each of our kids has their own screen and we’ve only had a few incidents of our daughter getting nauseous when using it.

Either way, you’re bound to need a restroom at some point. For all children, public toilets can be intimidating, even more so for kids with disabilities. I have a simple suggestion for handling automatic toilets. Post-It! That’s right! Those little stickered tablets can be used for more than quick notes and makeshift bookmarks. As long as the toilet sensor hasn’t been scrubbed with cleaner in the last ten minutes or so, the Post-It will stick right to the met, completely covering the sensor and “protecting” our little ones from “being flushed”.

Safe and Happy Travels!